Hopefully, this will be a blog that will interest those that have found themselves at a time in their lives that they’re back to the dating phase again! I use to not be able to say widow, it just meant to me this is really final. I no longer have my husband and may need to move on. It took at least 1yr in a half to say to myself, it’s ok to allow to feel or love again. I’m like, can I? Do I have the energy? Well, personally, I haven’t done much of it and can’t say too many negative things about it. I’ve been a widow for 2 years. I’ve been on a few dates so far. I’ve come across some very interesting individuals. I sometimes laugh to myself, once I mention that I’m widowed it seems to me at some point, I get advice on being around others, as if I have an issue with being alone. It’s out of sincerity, but I’m really not struggling with being alone at all! I keep pretty busy, and I’m not just sitting around. Most of my circle consist of married people. Single and Married can sometimes turn into a conflict. With dating now and days, a person can try dating sites. Well, that can be helpful, but everyone isn’t always honest with information in their profile. Now, one could say that could be the case if you’re not on a platform. TRUE THAT! At one point, I really told myself this dating thing isn’t for me. I have patience, but now at this time in my life, I’m 58 and just don’t want to spend my time trying to prove myself. My life style has peace. It’s been a journey, because guys will say they want a Christian woman in their lives, but not showing themselves to be on the same page. I’m like just be honest about who you are before saying what you’re expecting out of a woman. Being a Christian isn’t just for the woman. Good grief!! That’s been a journey. It’s the dating process for me!!! I can’t speak for the male widows, but I say to all having to start over. Hang in there!! Don’t compromise your relationship with the one who changed your life, Jesus. If you’re a believer, hold on, it will get better. Be positive. Faith and obedience is the key. You deserve peace! Best wishes on your dating journey.
Your friend,
Madeline.